have to ruin your life.

Learn the skills, strategies and tools YOU NEED

to survive your divorce and outsmart your ex.

Let me guess...

  • You spend the majority of your day feeling anxious, upset or  frustrated.
  • Your blood pressure rises every time a message comes in from your ex.
  • You stress about the kids spending time with their dad. 
  • You can’t handle another episode in court.

Women in the divorce trenches
feel like victims. 

It doesn’t have to be this way for you. 

There is a way forward that will put an
end to your suffering.


No longer being affected by your ex’s shenanigans.

Knowing your kids were going to be fine.

Feeling totally confident that you will win this battle.

Not only is this possible, but I’ve done it - and
have helped many others do the same.


The Divorce Survival Kit

Your toxic ex doesn’t have to change for you and your kids to be happy and secure.

The Divorce Survival Kit
is an online program where you'll learn:

  • To stop suffering, no matter what your ex says and does
  • How to always be in control of your emotions, so you can show up as the mom and opponent in court that you need to be
  • To believe in yourself and your kids, so you can start to live your lives to the fullest
  • To process pain, so you can be free of trauma and victimization
  • How to set and enforce personal boundaries, so that you can always feel safe
  • To accept and honor your child’s experience, to help them create emotional resilience

Here Is What You Get...

  • 6 Modules each with video lessons
  • Workbook
  • Exclusive access to private Facebook group
  • Monthly live coaching with a Divorce Coach
  • Weekly Q and A's

In The Divorce Survival Kit you'll:


and how to minimize the drama.


and learn easy strategies you can use daily.


and how your core beliefs are manifesting as well as how to believe new things about yourself and your kids.


allowing you to process pain, stop buffering with food and alcohol, and how to stop indulging in overwhelm and frustration.


so that you can stop being triggered by your ex.


as you learn how to develop your child’s emotional resilience, how to parent through the chaos, and to be at peace with what IS.

What Others Are Saying...

Great resource. Would have loved to have this course at the beginning of this (divorce) process.

Christie M.

Very excellent counsellor and coach if you’re in a high-conflict separation/divorce situation that is able to help you regain your self-worth and help you believe you can be a good/strong/healthy mother for your struggling kids.

Marie W.T.

I learned different strategies to manage my emotions as I work to change my thinking and thought patterns…I am learning strategies to recognize when I’m stuck in a negative thought pattern. Your course has taught me how to question the thoughts I have and how to engage in change. I am grateful to have had this learning as I truly feel like I am gaining greater emotional control.

Stacey L.

Are You Ready to Start


rather than just


Antidote to Toxic Ex...Priceless

Keep your kids safe...Priceless

Win in Family Court...Priceless

Minimize the Divorce Drama...Priceless

Get instant access NOW
for just $197

I have packed a lot into my Divorce Survival Kit because I want you to be tooled up for anything that comes your way.

I want you to develop complete brain mastery so you can kill it in your divorce battle. 

Consider Module 1 as your trial. Upon enrollment, complete Module 1 within 14 days to see if this is the course for you. 

If you are not completely satisfied I will refund 100% of your investment. 


Let Me Introduce Myself

I’m Stacey Mendelson and I was you. I successfully navigated a vicious divorce and custody battle. I won. 

In 2014 I was working as a veterinarian and I was a mom to a young boy on the Autism Spectrum. In other words, I was BUSY! While I was trying hard to support my kid and show up as a professional, my husband  was busy having an affair.

Did this all come as a surprise? Honestly, no. The marriage sucked for at least 10 years, but I was just trying to hang on until my boy was old enough where I wouldn’t have to fight for custody.

I knew my husband would be a difficult opponent, but I underestimated his wrath. You name it, I faced it: domestic violence, criminal charges, harassment, legal and financial abuse. 

I made plenty of mistakes, but I wised up along the way. I figured out my goals and got strategic. Step 1 was working  on my own state of mind. What was a nice educated  gal like me doing in a place like this? That’s when I discovered coaching.

I had no idea that my thoughts about myself had generated the life that I was living. I set about repairing all of it,  and this is how I developed the strength to kick ass in my legal battle. 

I conquered all of my divorce goals: sole custody, lifetime restraining order, support. But I actually gained so much more in the journey.  My life and my son’s life  is so much better than I ever dreamed possible.  I am now a Certified Life Coach and  can help you  move forward in your divorce journey and achieve your divorce goals. 

I am here to throw you a lifeline.

The Divorce Survival Kit is perfect for you if:

  • You  spend  your days feeling terrified, anxious, angry or frustrated
  • You dread communication with your ex
  • You are always being triggered by your ex 
  • You are worried about how this is all impacting your kids
  • You are exhausted from the battle
  • You have lost confidence in yourself or your lawyer

If you have read this far, you owe it to yourself to answer these questions:

  • What if just one idea from Divorce Survival Kit helps you keep your kids safe while they are with your ex?
  • What if just one strategy from Divorce Survival Kit keeps you from another sleepless night of worrying?
  • What if just one tool from Divorce Survival Kit helps you stop being bullied by your ex?

What Others Are Saying...

Navigating the system in dealing with a narcissist ex-husband and trying to keep my children safe is the biggest challenge I have ever had in my life. Stacey's course answers all my questions, gives excellent advice, and has helped me respond to letters from counsel. She has been able to prepare me for what is coming next…

Sarah R.

I thoroughly enjoyed the course. I really appreciate all the words of wisdom that Stacey hard to share.

Carrie R. 

You Have Questions. I Have The Answers.

How much time do I need to devote to DSK?

  • Each class is less than 15  minutes.
  • Do 2 classes per week and the course will take you 6 weeks.
  • Spend as much or as little time on the exercises, but I recommend 5 minutes per day to get the maximum self coaching benefit. 

Do I really need to spend the money on this? I have lots of expenses including legals.

  • You can’t  afford not to clean up your brain if you want to win and stay sane.
  • You will reduce legal fees dramatically when you learn to manage your mind and your emotions.
  • Emotional resilience for you and your children is invaluable.
  • Showing up as the parent you want to be is also invaluable.  

Is there a specific start date?

  • No, start any time and complete at your own pace.
  • You will be welcomed into a community of like minded warrior women in the battle.

I am not sure if I am a good fit for this course.

  • If you have a human brain - you are a good fit.
  • The unmanaged brain is the cause of substantial  suffering  - you need to learn how to manage it to stop agonizing  through your divorce battle.

What Others Are Saying...

I am so happy that a connection I made with Stacey of Facebook lead me to this group. This course really helped me come to terms with my current co-parenting situation. I had been in the process of researching how to deal with my ex and this course brought everything together and taught me new ways. I went from crying in the second class because I was so overwhelmed and frustrated to feeling at peace and empowered by the last class. Thank you so much Stacey!

Elsbeth S.

It’s a good space to be in, with like-minded women who share similar experiences and a coach who guides us (on the monthly Ask Stacey calls) through various situations.

Christina S.

Stacey has been through it and really understands the process. Her advice is spot on and very helpful if you want to heal and start living your life again.

Denise A.

Haven't you suffered ENOUGH?

Isn't it time to GET YOUR LIFE BACK?

Join the other moms in the battle and learn all the tools you need to survive your divorce.